Marriage and the Church Were Never a Good Fit
Priests and perhaps preachers everywhere lament the decline in the number of marriages and the choice not to be married in churches. The clergy/church wedding was a marketing concept that probably delayed the decline in church numbers. It is easy to see in retrospect the church had no business pushing itself into the practice of marriage. They have nothing to do with each other. Along with marriage, the Christian faith has inserted itself into several issues it should never have entered. Everyone who has studied anthropology probably come across ancient marriage practices. Marriages were arranged by the tribe or clan to establish military or economic business arrangements. It never occurred to young people their coming marriage would be to someone they chose. There may have been some religious overtones from whatever religion was practiced but the main variable was marriage to help the tribe or clan. A good review of all that is here . The early Jews worked religion into uni...